Thursday, April 30, 2009

My husband married an obsessive woman!

I didn't actually realized there was a term for it.

Until I recently read an article about OCPD-obsessive-compulsive personality disorder.Urgh....sounds creepy.

OCD is defined as an anxiety mental disorder that centres on repetitive,fearful thoughts,termed as an obsession.

Well,I'm an 'orderer' apparently.My obsession is to organise or arrange objects in a specific pattern or order before performing a daily task.My compulsion is to arrange things in a certain 'correct' way.Thus,if anyone else touches or moves those objects out of place,I would feel extremely upset or annoyed.

Which,I tell you, is soooooo true!

I can't help it.I have this excessive desire for orderliness.I want certain things to be where they are.I want items that have been taken to be placed back EXACTLY as it was before.For instance,when hubby took the diaper rash cream to put on our son and then he placed it back on the vanity table,but not exactly at the spot where it was supposed to be,I'd get agitated.I mean,I have placed our bottles of perfume,lotions and creams etc,neatly and in such an organized way (perfumes on the left,lotions in the middle,deodorant and powder at the back....and so on...),I just get a tad upset when they are not placed back neatly.It's with everything,you know.I don't like seeing a crooked bathmat on the floor,slanted cushions on the sofa,furniture not in line...I try not to get too consumed or annoyed when I noticed this kind of thing coz I don't want the person who didn't do it 'right' to be annoyed by my behaviour.I'm mental!Haha!


Just a few months back,SIL and hubby insisted that SIL stayed with us for a few days after I gave birth to my second.As lovely and as helpful as she is,I couldn't help but wanting to do certain things my way or to put certain items as such.I tried so hard to ignore and not be so regimental but when no one was looking,I rearrange it back as it was supposed to be.Opps....

Sounds crazy but it's true.That's me.Yup,I'm an obesessive orderer.I just respect orderliness and cleanliness,that's all.This reminds me of two characters I watched on TV before.One is the husband of Julia Roberts in the movie 'Sleeping with the enemy' who wanted even the towels on the rack to be arranged in line.The other is Monica,played by Courteney Cox,in the sitcom 'Friends'.Those who are fans of this would understand!

As obssessive as I am,hubby still loves me : p I have our home nice and neat,haven't I?hehe....

Speaking of which,I can't wait for hubby to be back from Sydney tomorrow.He's been gone too long....I hope he's got my favourite chocolates back for me!*grin*

Anyway,I had a good time shopping with my two babies yesterday.I had wanted to go to the new mall in the east since it was opened but didn't get the chance,especially when hubby dreaded to wait for a parking lot during the crowded weekends.First stop was to Uniqlo,the most talked-about new store these days.I wanted to know what the hype is about since I've never been to one,in Japan,that is.All in all,it's an ok store.Not so much for me I guess.It houses the basics,with lots of tees,camisoles and tank tops for women.I was looking forward to check out the bratop but most are plain,sleeveless tanktops,unlike the ones from Victoria Secrets (I wish we have VS store here,I went wild at one in Las Vegas!),which have long sleeves ones and gorgeous design tops.There are tons of jeans in Uniqlo.I didn't get the chance to try any,what with the 2 kids.But I noticed some nice cuttings on some and a pair of sleek cargoes.The material in Uniqlo seems good though-kudos to that.I bought some innerwear which feels comfortable and makes me yearn to buy more : ) I just wish they carry more styles.

I came across another new first time in S'pore store and I love the designs they carry.I got a nice waistcoat and I can't wait for them to bring in more.I burnt a hole at the end of those few hours of shopping,with a few breaks to change my baby's diaper and to breastfeed.Such a challenge to shop with the lil' ones (with my son falling off his sister's pram,my daughter wailing for milk and me shouting,no don't touch that and put that back!),but it won't stop me!At the end of the day,there were gifts for the family.

It's always the case.....once I start,it's difficult to stop (maybe there's another term for this obsession too!yikes) so I ended up staying up till the early morn to shop online.Ohhh ohhh....

Maybe it's good that hubby's home tomorrow....so I won't digress in my shopping!

P.S.Check out this 2 stunning gizmos!A fiery red cybershot that allows editing on the camera itself....and Kindle2,for bookworms like me!Dunno if its downloads are available here or not.Any ebook will do then *wink*




Wednesday, April 15, 2009

A year gone by....

And so a year has gone by since I last blown the candles on my cake.

A year full of hopes and dreams.....and mostly of laughter and much pain (that was the part when I went into labour!lol).A big change in my life since last year is having another baby...a much awaited baby girl,who is coincidentally conceived on my last birthday...*grin*

As I closed my eyes and ponder on the significant parts of my life,what I was before,the things that happened which has moulded me to what I am today,I can only be thankful to Him.Though I can't erase some that I've regretted,perhaps in all the wrong that I've done,I might have done something good after all...to deserve this happiness and this smile I have on my face everyday.

I would be lying if I said I wasn't effected with the change in the number.And I still wouldn't tell anyone my age if I have to,chose to playfully said 'I'm 21' when anybody asks.Like,get real,right?!Think what you may,go ahead and guess...just don't go overboard if you want to get on my good side : )

I was mulling over the fact that hubby's going away for another business trip on my birthday and hoping that he has something nice up his sleeve for me before he flies off.I love when someone fusses over my birthday,planning and surprising me...yup,just for me!Haha!Am I being snotty?*shrugs* Trust me,all wives want that from their husbands.

And so,that was exactly what he did.

He took the kids and me for a fantastic meal on Sunday afternoon.We had a 'New Zealand menu'....fresh dory and succulent steak....and a kiwi cheesecake.It may look a queer green but I promise you,it's superb!



On Monday morning,at 11.12am,I received a message-He told me to get the kids to nap early as we have a date at 3.30.

I was so surprised!He has gone to work and I thought it was going to be another routine weekday for me.Apparently not!I rushed through the chores that needed immediate attention and waited anxiously to be swept to another food galore.

Hi-tea at Carousel.

The food was so-so.Not much improvement since our last visit.What I went wild for was of course,the desserts!I had a bit of rice,otak-otak,a taste of kebab and some other stuff here and there,but I swooped in on the sinful sweets....their signature bread and butter pudding,cheesecakes,scones,ice-cream and chocolate fondue.My son was in it as much as I was!

I ate till the lights go low on us.I was a happy woman.Just as I thought we were heading home,hubby asked if I was ready for the second surprise.Oh la la...

What was beside Carousel?Yup,DFS.But more importantly,where exactly at DFS were we headed?

Third floor...where all the boutiques are...where you can smell the leather on those gorgeous ones....

With a skip on my step and an enormous grin on my face (I couldn't wipe that stupid smile on my face throughout!),we went into

'The One'.

I could have kissed him right there!

This was my gift....

My own Galliera!!!Yippee!A GM to fit all my stash and babies' stuff too.


Not forgetting,a birthday card with words written so sweet,I had tears in my eyes.



Thank you sweetheart!Muaah...muaah...muaah....


On the morning of my birthday,hubby flew off to Hong Kong.Still dizzy with excitement,I went on a date with my two SIL for yet another sumptuous meal.Ooh all the good food....



My son has the best time it seems!(My baby girl stayed asleep all this while...)


I had a long birthday celebration this year.It was fantastic.I had tons of messages and well-wishes from my true friends and loads of love from my family.

What more could I have asked for....?